2006-10-05

给陌生人一个拥抱


在YouTube看到一则感人的视频--Free Hugs Campaign





从短片里可以看到,在悉尼闹市街头,一个化名Juan Mann的年轻人,举着一张写着"FREE HUGS"的纸牌,向来往的行人提供拥抱。从最初无人理睬,到渐渐有人接受,有越来越多人加入进来响应。然后,警察干预进来,禁止了这一活动。然后,Juan Mann和他的伙伴们收集了一万个请愿签名,提交给市议会希望FREE HUGS能继续下去。短片的最后,人们拥抱了警官。


Juan Mann其实只是这个年轻人的化名,它的读音和One Man一样。他形容,"FREE HUGS"传递的是一种快餐式的情感(fast-food emotion),是一种让人们微笑的方法。他一直坚持的原则是,不透露姓名,不留电话号码,不发生关系,不搞约会。他说:"每给出一个拥抱,你将看到五个路过的人面带微笑。"


我觉得倒不是拥抱这个动作本身传递了多少东西,只是这份简单而纯真的激情让人感动。


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这则短片的制作者是Sick Puppies乐队,片中的背景音乐"All the Same"就是他们的作品。一年多前,Sick Puppies的主唱Shimon Moore还是那种白天在购物中心挂着夹板做宣传广告的小职员,晚上组band演奏唱歌的不知名歌手,他认识Juan Mann后,成了他的伙伴,于是借来父亲的摄像机拍下了这些片段。Sick Puppies说把这些片段剪辑制作成是短片放上网,是要向更多人分享和传递Free Hugs的理念(或者,顺便推广一下他们的歌)。从9月22日发布到今天已经超过一百七十万的点击率,这则短片迅速而广泛地感动着越来越多的人。这也说明在这个网络高度发达的时代, 实打实的默默苦干一年可能还是没什么人知道,但是一放上网用不了几天就全世界都知道了。


另外,我上网搜索的时候发现Free Hugs最早并非由Juan Mann发起的,而是一个叫Jason Hunter的美国人。2001年在他的母亲的葬礼上,听到人们缅怀她喜欢与人拥抱的经历,从而受到启发,开始带着一张写着"FREE HUGS"的牌子走上街头,而且他要传递的信息也有所不同,是为了"letting every single person know that they matter"。不过此"拥抱"非彼"拥抱"并不仅于此,Jason Hunter把"FREE HUGS"办成了一家"Social Experience company",而且还不是一个"non-profit entity"(非盈利性机构),从它的网站faq上可以看到如下一段劝人买东西的话:


Why should I buy FREE HUGS merchandise?
Research shows that we need at least three hugs a day to grow and become a better person. A hug is a universal symbol of support, concern, or just a way of saying, "I'm here and I matter." FREE HUGS t-shirts have proven over time that just by wearing one, you instantly become a magnet for positivity. You will bring smiles to many faces and receive hugs from perfect strangers who want to share in the message. Wearing the FREE HUGS brand is a testament to making a difference in the world, "One hug at a time."

这个大概就是所谓的商业广告了吧~


最后附上,All the Same的歌词


Sick Puppies - All The Same Song Lyrics

I don't mind where you come from
As long as you come to me
I don't like illusions I can't see
Them clearly

I don't care no I wouldn't dare
To fix the twist in you
You've shown me eventually
What you'll do

I don't mind...
I don't care...
As long are you're here

Go ahead tell me you'll leave again
You'll just come back running
Holding your scarred heart in hand
It's all the same
And I'll take you for who you are
If you take me for everything
Do it all over again
It's all the same

Hours slide and days go by
Till you decide to come
And in between it always seems too long
All of a sudden

And I have the skill, yeah I have the will
To breathe you in while I can
However long you stay
Is all that I am

I don't mind...
I don't care...
As long are you're here

Go ahead tell me you'll leave again
You'll just come back running
Holding your scarred heart in hand
It's all the same
And I'll take you for who you are
If you take me for everything
Do it all over again
It's always the same

Wrong or right
Black or white
If I close my eyes
I's all the same

In my life
The compromise
I close my eyes
It's all the same

Go ahead say it you're leaving
You'll just come back running
Holding your scarred heart in hand
It's all the same
And I'll take you for who you are
If you take me for everything
Do it all over again
It's all the same

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如果目标正确,它只不过是不动声色地、极其庄严自信地向人们预示今后可能进行的写作,而无须有任何愧色。

--安伯托•艾柯(Umberto Eco)